Heal the Most Important Relationship: Between You and Yourself
You believe giving is a virtue. You give your love, care and compassion away, but you don’t find yourself loving “you”. You put others first, way ahead of your own needs. You feel lonely, sad, neglected, unloved, unaccepted, and hollow inside. You’re becoming an empty husk of your former self.
What if you keep draining yourself by continuously giving, and not ever receiving? And all for what? Love? Validation?
Trust me when I say this: the love you have for yourself is already within you – you don’t need to “find” it, you just need to reconnect with it.
I used to put the needs of others in front of mine, take care of others and satisfy their needs and hope in return I’ll be loved and accepted.
But, more often than not, they took me for granted. And when the other person did not respond in the way I expected them to, correction: I longed for them to – I felt sad, disappointed, unloved, unaccepted, belittled, taken advantage of.
Until I asked myself: How many more times can I allow the same patterns to repeat in life? So I reached out for help. Thankfully, I learned to realize that I’ll only feel loved and accepted when I start loving myself, and that self love is never lost — the evidence is that I was so sad for feeling the pain
I learned the key was not “finding self love”. I learned to “reconnect with self love”, so that my rising sense of self breaks the old pattern of pleasing others for love.
I wondered, how many chances do they deserve? How many chances have I given myself to get out of this pattern? How long can this people-pleasing and validation-seeking continue?
I got to connect and bond with ME that desires what’s missing in life, and I AM the one that’s gonna complete the missing pieces with unconditional care.
With a better relationship with myself which shifted my energy and focus on my wellbeing, I attracted mutually loving, caring, respectful and accepting people into my life. My relationships improved many
times over.
I’m now feeling loved, accepted. The people I interact with are respectful of my feelings. I feel more connected, bonded with my peers than ever. My efforts are more appreciated, I feel important, and significant to myself.
Always giving to others doesn’t mean you don’t love yourself because you do feel drained. When you revert the giving back to yourself then you’ll start receiving too.
Instead of guiding people to “finding self love”, we at Caring Nature, guide them to "reconnect with self love”, so they become aware of the action to nurture and give self love.
You’ll have the self that you have been longing for, the sense of missing informs you the need. So, by being nourished by self-loved YOU guide yourself to what needs to take place for your being.
You’ll grow a sense of boundary to allow yourself to put YOU first and stop accepting things that exhaust you physically, mentally and emotionally, so you’ll get more energy back. Reach out to our coach at https://caringnaturescheduling.as.me/strategy-session or https://wa.me/+628112576434 to begin your transformation and experience a happy, healthy, and lasting relationship with yourself.
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